Always, when you know what you don't want, that's when the rocket of desire is born of what you do want. That is the fruit of your experience. Now pluck it and savor it and enjoy it. Visualize it, and find the feeling place of it. And live happily ever after, once you get the hang of this.
Daddy says: The mind is the strongest thing in the universe, use it. Mind is the creator of everything you should therefore guide it to create only good. Thought is the only power. Guard your thoughts, for they become your words. Guard your words, for they become your actions. Guard your actions for they become your habits. Guard your habits for they become your character. Guard your character for it becomes your destiny.